Actress Halima Abubakar opened up on her marriage plans.
Speaking to Encomium magazine, the actress revealed she has no plans of settling down as there is no true love.
Read the full excerpt:
Marriage has been overrated. It’s unnecessarily over rated. It’s just too muchof headache with how thingsare now. Even ordinary relationship is a huge burden, huge headache and heartbreaking, let alone marriage. When you can’t stand each other as boyfriend and girlfriend, howwould you live together under the same roof when you get married?People need to know themselves seriously. When I say seriously, I mean spiritually before getting married. People only know themselves physically, not spiritually, so they end up getting bored with each other. And they will say they don’t want to get divorce because of what society would say after investing so much on the marriage.They stay in that marriage and later it may become very irritating and they start fighting. Before they know it,everything becomes violent. You hear people say all sorts of things. You’re the one who allowed people to get to you and start telling you you’re getting old. You’re the one allowing them to convince you that you’re getting old, you need to get married. Everyone will surely get old. Who won’t get old? So, when people say I am getting old, get married, I would tell them that’s the only thing they know. Peoplecarry marriage like a flag.On her marriage plans:
No, people should only try tobe nice about marriage to make me interested in it. Don’t tell me actresses don’t stay in marriage. Olu Jacobsand Joke Silva have been married for long and they’re still in the marriage. Nothing happened to their union. Omotola and her husband have been married for long; they’re still very much together. She got married at a young age which is good. What I am trying to say is that going into marriage needs a lot; you don’t just gointo it. My elder sister got married at 26 and she’s doing fine in the marriage with her husband. Now, tell me why won’t I want a family like that? But these days, people are just too much into social media, that’s why marriages are crashing. Marriage these days is not based on happiness and genuine love.Let me ask, who is that poor person that has married a billionaire son? So, why won’t marriage crash when it’s not based on happiness and genuine love?
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